I’ve deleted and rewrote this title many times now trying to find the perfect way to discuss this. Being the person everyone goes to for venting, or ranting about something, even about someone you mutually know is tough. When your on the other side of it, you don’t see how it could drain the person your ranting to. I say this for a reason.


You know that one friend you make and in the moment you think they’re super awesome and you wouldn’t mind talking to each other outside of the current situation? Then, the moment you do text each other and you do hang out again you notice that the person is more annoying than helpful, or more of a downer then a positive influence?